> Every time I try to send it wants to connect to ledger
If you are using terra-station accounts that are derived from your ledger seed (i.e. SECURED by your ledger), then yes, it is normal and expected that you will need to connect your ledger, and approve each Tx on the ledger device, to send FROM the terra-station account.
If you create a terra-station account not connected with your ledger, the account will be not secured, and it will be derived from another seed phrase that is stored in terra-station, i.e. that could be easily hacked. If you have a ledger, you should not do that, unless you understand that the account is unsecure and at risk (why take a risk of being hacked if you have a ledger? makes no sense to me).